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Calgary kinkster

looking for friends, kinksters, bdsm, bicurious and polyamourous

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Swinging Preferences

Travel:within 10 miles
Entertain at home:Never
Enjoy attending:Adult exhibitions & parades
Ultimate fantasy:Been with couples, had many 3somes, but never a group thang, tried bdsm community, but never really felt part of the group. Pushing limits and enjoying what I can..

Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?prefer private, but met up with one kinky friend and had sex while others partied around us..
I guess I need to feel safe first, then anything goes..
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?I've made a few mistakes, I suppose the risky ones involved alchohol, bars, etc, but I did feel more anxiety in a public stairwell, or two - blush-

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthVery long
Facial HairShaved
Best featureLegs
Body ArtOther
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
Cup sizeA
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyHospitality / Travel
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleSenior Events support

Looking For

I prefer:Oddities, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchone that lights up with barely a strike.. oh, you don't mean ignition on a stick? wrong match..

someone open to bad jokes and patient with a geeky homebody.
Our first datecomputers, coffee, slurpee's and/or weird histories.. or some combo of..
will end in atleast a hug..

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isUnsure
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Femdom, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Mummification, Physical humiliation, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasI felt most proud of how I handled a semi-public flogging, kinda felt like I over-took her birthday party.. a broadsword was involved, and my butt took over 2 weeks to heal...

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, Cuckolding, Lace / Lingerie, Lactation, Panty, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Several times a day
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isFun sometimes
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":ask me directly..

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyfemdom, cuckold, bull, flr, chastity, teasing, cuddling
Fantasy locationDressing room, On the beach, My office, Library, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Paula Abdul, or a younger version.. wink.. with or without extra panty parts..

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Never
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness
I like to wear:as mentioned once a broadsword was involved, cages and leashes, whips, dragons tail and other kink implements, floggers.. clothing only hinders I find. Chastity or hobbling or bondage adds to the experience. Edging also helps the bottom push it's limits.. I've broken more than one wooden spoon. (on receiving)
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Riding Crop, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:Heavy Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear
Ideal session:as sub: nude or feminized,
humiliated, chastity, hobbled, bondage
ask me directly. Femdom is personal and dynamic between private individuals doesn't read well in chat.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:ask me directly. Femdom is personal and dynamic between private individuals doesn't read well in chat.
I appreciate the dark depths, and submit willingly to many types, but will fight back if bored or curious or hurt..
that said, fantasy wise 24/7 castrated sub feminized caged and broken.